69ing, cleaning the kitchen, going down, cabeza, giving head, or the more commonly used blow job, all these slang terms are just the tip of the iceberg of a whole Thesaurus of euphemisms and nicknames for oral sex.
If we would like to be proper about it, “Cunnilingus” refers to oral sex performed on females; “Fellatio” refers to oral sex performed on males, while “Anilngus” refers to oral stimulation of a person’s anus. But of course, saying those things in bed while at the moment could merit you being pushed off the bed.
Regardless which play of words we use, oral sex seems to transcend cultures, but some attitudes vary. Ancient Romans considered it profoundly taboo, whereas Taoism revered oral sex as a spiritually fulfilling practice. But in today’s modern culture, science tells us that oral sex is inevitable as human beings have an intuitive desire to explore things with our mouths, and that includes other’s bodies during intercourse. So what is it really with this sexual act that drives both men and women crazy? Let’s look at some points.
When it comes to being challenged, women seem to be on the longer slack of the line as they perceive oral sex to be an essential part of pleasuring their man. Not to mention, they have an actual appendage to deal with. Surprisingly, most men find the act of deep throating as highly “overrated”. Women can easily make up for their lack on skills with enthusiasm, and this applies to men as well. Nothing drives both sexes wild than seeing their partners excited with delight in devouring their sensitive bits. As for the men, it’s important to start slowly. Women like it when their man takes time to appreciate her and her body. What would probably ruin it is an “overachiever” who jumps in with an all aggressive tongue. Imagine her vagina as your favourite ice cream flavour in a cone. Sweet gentle licks would definitely do the trick.
Here’s a simple truth, the tongue is the body’s strongest muscle, not to mention the fact that it’s naturally lubricated with saliva. Can’t you just help but smile thinking that Mother Nature has considered everything? More flexible than your penis will ever be, the tongue can manipulate a woman’s vagina in all sorts of ways, not to mention it can vary its firmness in a snap! So while you’re down there, take full advantage of your tongue’s newfound talents. Make it firm and narrow for pin-point accuracy, or make it soft, wide, and limber to cover more ground. Remember to always go back to her clitoris, as most women achieve orgasm via clitoral stimulation. And always start slow and pick it up based on your partner’s body language.
Are there any special spots on the penis?
Every man’s precious thing is not the same; each has its own sensitive spot. Generally, the corona (head) and frenulum (the ridge underneath) is more sensitive than the actual base shaft. Do not be afraid to talk to your lover where you want to be kissed, sucked, or licked. We’d bet that finding your special spot is equally exciting to her.
Can I make seminal fluids taste better?
Microbiologist and nutritionist have done studies on this question, and the answer is: you are what you eat. Its only common sense that the better you taste, the more your partner would want to eat you down there, so improving your taste should seriously be considered. Nutritionists say that alkaline based foods such as meat and fish produce a butter fish taste. However, stay out of dairy products if you don’t want your partner to detest having oral sex with you! Due to their high bacterial putrefaction level, they produce the foulest taste by far. Acidic fruits, sweets, and natural based alcoholic brinks produce a pleasant sugary flavour. Now you know why apples and oranges keep the doctor away, in more ways than one.
What are the contents of semen? Is it safe to swallow?
This question is more prevalent among those who requests their partners to swallow their cum. The average ejaculate contains aboutonia, ascorbic acid, blood-group antigens, calcium, chlorine, cholesterol, choline, citric acid, creatine, deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA), fructose, glutathione, hyaluronidase, inositol, lactic acid, magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium, purine, pyrimidine, pyruvic acid, sodium, sorbitol, spermidine, spermine, urea, uric acid, vitamin B12 and zinc.The caloric content of an average ejaculate is estimated to be approximately 15 calories. Too much to handle? We understand, in a nutshell, all of these are naturally occurring chemicals that are found in the human body, which makes semen safe to be ingested. That is, if your partner is into it.
Just because its oral sex doesn’t mean everything should be done by your mouth. In this case, your fingers are your tongue’s best friend. While you’re French kissing her vagina, use your fingers to rub her at the same time. The best combination is to suck her clitoris and penetrate her vagina with your fingers. If you can master this skill, then you’ll go down in history as an oral sex king!
Relax and Smell the Roses
Just in case you didn’t know, the more relaxed you are, the more relaxed your partner will be. People have a tendency to absorb each other’s energies and if you tense up, it’ll rub on her. If you’re both relaxed, the easier it is for your brain to process the pleasures of oral sex. And another thing, if you’re partner’s a gusher; the feeling of her ejaculate flowing all over your mouth is one of the best aphrodisiacs on earth.
The old adage says that too much of one thing is always bad, so learn when to stop. Oral sex can be a mind blowing experience but it still does not replace the sexual act itself. At best, it’s an excellent substitute. There’s no one way of doing it but there is at least one general attitude that you should bring with you, and that is enthusiasm. You have to love what you’re doing because you love her, or simply because you love going down south. Loving both is best! Your woman faking an orgasm has nothing on giving lacklustre oral sex.