There are only two guys in the world — those who watch porn and liars. Seriously though, it’s probably true that most men watch porn on a regular basis, for reasons that we should all be familiar with. But what about women?

Most of us have probably been taught that being a “Maria Clara” is what all women should aspire to be (unfairly so). This might lead you to think that girls, especially Pinays, don’t watch porn as much. Well, the statistics beg to differ.

In a recent article from PornHub, the company published data regarding the habits and statistics of female site visitors Lo and behold, the Philippines ranks among the top 20 countries as regards female PornHub viewership. This means that quite a number of Filipinas are just as into porn as guys are.

Coupled with the fact that the Philippines spends the longest-time on PornHub for five years in a row now, it’s fair to say that these steamy videos have accompanied many lonely nights of Pinoys and Pinays. Going solo isn’t the only use for porn though, as some videos can even serve as inspiration to spice up your romantic evenings.

With this in mind, it’s not a bad idea to pick some porn for your girlfriend. Though before you recommend all your favorite kinky content, you first have to ask if she’s interested. If she is, you should then ask if whether she already watches porn or not. Her answer should give you a rough idea of what to recommend.

She Does

Did your partner tell you she’s part of the reason why we’re at PornHub’s top 20? You’re in luck as this will make things much easier. To start off, find out what she’s into. Based on her preferences, you should first recommend videos that are related to them; then you can try suggesting stuff that you’re interested in.

Say for example she’s into light bondage (where the girl is submissive); content to suggest can include videos involving spanking, wax play, and other S&M kinks. To mix things up, you can even link videos where the girl takes on a more dominant role and the guy must submit to her desires (aka kinks).

If she gets into your suggestions, you can then recommend some stuff you’re interested in, this time to give her a taste of what you like in bed. If for example you’re into roleplaying, you can send links of videos in say an office setting where the boss and her subordinate get into some non-HR friendly action; or maybe a pizza delivery scenario if you’re into that.

She Doesn’t

It may seem a bit difficult to start recommending porn to your partner if you find out she doesn’t watch much of it (if at all), but thanks to PornHub’s stats, suggesting videos is made a bit easier. According to the findings, Pinays tend to prefer videos tagged as Romantic, Behind the Scenes, and Verified Couples. These are the kinds of videos that you should start with.

While there are a lot of romance-themed videos that are professionally produced, most of these tags are found in amateur videos. Good thing there are lots of websites that cater to amateur couples who want to share their love (and lovemaking) online. If you don’t know where to start, just go take a look at PornHub Community, there are tons of steamy-yet-sweet videos of verified couples there.

 

Now, amateur videos are great to recommend for starters, but remember to keep an eye out for scandals and other creepy (and exploitative) videos. Don’t recommend these. Not only are these unethical, there’s no reason to go for them considering that there are lots of consenting couples who post their homemade porn online with much higher quality to boot.

If your girlfriend gets into more romantic porn, this can now be a jumping point. After a while, you can introduce stuff that’s a bit more than vanilla such as role-playing scenarios or kinkier videos (if you’re into that); she might even discover new bedtime interests as she explores on her own. As you and your partner explore more steamy content, you’ll have more material to be inspired by, which can definitely lead to more exciting nights in the bedroom.